聚散不由我(只愿人在风中聚散不由我什么意思)

怨只怨人在风中
I blame myself hopelessly in wind away from thee.
聚散都不由我
To stay or split helplessly in life is not up to me.”

This is part of the lyrics in 张学友Jacky Cheung's song 《秋意浓》: "不怕相思苦只怕你伤痛，怨只怨人在风中聚散都不由我".